After devoting several decades to liberating masturbation and reinstating the clitoris as women's primary sex organ, finding a sensitive spot inside the vagina made me very suspicious. Although I know there's a small percentage of women who allegedly achieve orgasm with vaginal penetration only, which would include g-spot stimulation, the majority of women do not. Naturally I began questioning the conflicting information surrounding this new sexual response. However, questioning the what, where and why of a g-spot doesn't mean I deny its existence as some have concluded.

The most recent research shows that what we've been calling the "g-spot" is a cluster of up to 31 tiny prostate-like glands located inside a tube of spongy tissue surrounding the urethra that lies above the vaginal ceiling. Back in the eighties, the feminist collective in LA that wrote "A New View of a Woman's Body" named this tube the "urethral sponge" and that it housed the "paraurethral gland." But calling this structure prostate-like glands instead of a paraurethral gland makes more sense. Because the original fetal template is female, women must possess an embryonic prostatic structure in order for the male to develop one.

 

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Over the years I've called the g-spot the back side of the clitoris, the urethral sponge or the female prostate gland. It seems this last label has won in scientific circles. The Federative International Committee on Anatomical Terminology concurred at their recent 2001 meeting to the use of the term "female prostate" (prostata feminina) in the new edition of Histology Terminology. In my opinion the term "g-spot" is unfortunate but it's now in the dictionary so I'm afraid it's here to stay. We should have called it the p-spots for the female prostatic structure.

In my thirty-some years of personal and professional hands-on experience teaching female sexuality, I've concluded that stimulation of those tiny female prostate glands do not always play a direct role in orgasm for all women. Many women prefer a more generalized form of slow vaginal penetration combined with clitoral stimulation - the combination orgasm. The most common form of g-spot stimulation is with a lover's fingers or a sex toy pressing firmly up into the vaginal ceiling with firm rapid movements. In some women this produces ejaculation, but not always accompanied with orgasm. A few women ejaculate with a vibrator on their clitoris alone. However, there remains no question in my mind that the clitoris with it's eight thousand plus nerve endings remains a woman's primary sexual pleasure organ.

As for the mysterious fluid, evaluations so far have focused on proving that it is not urine. The most recent research has found PSA (prostate specific antigen) in female ejaculate, a substance that does not appear in either male or female urine. For those women who thought they were peeing when they climaxed, female ejaculation has vindicated them. But with all the publicity surrounding female ejaculation, too many women felt pressured to find this magic spot in order to improve their orgasms or to please their partners. A lot of lesbians and men wanted to be drenched in this exotic fluid that left big wet spots on the bed. Why? An old urban myth claims that the wetter a woman is, the more turned on she is. Also, ejaculating is the way men experience their orgasms so spurting and leaving a big wet spot proves they'd made their women come really hard- whether the women had an orgasm or not.

 
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Whenever anyone talks about sexuality, they are usually referring to their own experiences consciously or unconsciously. So let me say upfront that my bias or favorite kind of orgasm is the combination of clitoral stimulation and vaginal penetration. I like an electric vibrator on my clitoris, a penis, finger or dildo in my vagina, and a hot fantasy on my mind happening all at once. When I'm doing this with a partner I'm crazy about, it makes it even better, but it's also great when I'm alone. As far as I know, I have never ejaculated but I do know that my combination orgasms have been deep, powerful and satisfying. I also enjoy my quick little ten minute maintenance orgasms that simply release tension. In my mind, there is no such thing as having a bad orgasm.

I am the voice for women who do not orgasm from vaginal, g-spot or female prostate gland stimulation alone. Although I love the feeling of penetration, I have never found any spot or area inside my vagina that is greater than or equal to the pleasure I feel in my clitoris. Furthermore, I am not interested in learning how to ejaculate by bearing down on my PC muscle. When I do my Kegels, I'm doing the reverse, always lifting up.

So whether a woman is ejaculating and loving it, spewing forth buckets without an orgasm for entertainment value, performing golden showers in X-rated videos, or withholding her "vital fluids" with retrograde ejaculations and peeing it out later, I say as long as it feels good, enjoy yourself!

 
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In my opinion, the g-spot phenomenon and the potential for pleasure from the female prostate glands has been overstated in popular culture. Therefore we need to remember that not all women enjoy the ceiling of their vaginas rubbed vigorously. Women who masturbate to orgasm regularly with some form of direct clitoral stimulation will definitely want their clitorises engaged during all types of penetration including prostate gland stimulation. Instead of dividing women into two camps, the Clit-Girls and the Vagina-Girls, why cant we have both? We can all be Combo-girls with the best of both worlds! As I said in my latest book "Orgasms for Two," pleasure rules.

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