Do women shoot liquid when they climax?
What is that called?
There are two types of fluid that women produce. The first is during arousal and
orgasm, when the vagina produces more vaginal fluid and lubrication. Many times
during orgasm, women will experience a rush of this fluid, to varying degrees.
Women also have the capability to ejaculate, usually when the g-spot is
stimulated; some women can achieve ejaculation with intense clitoral stimulation
as well. This thin, watery liquid is not urine, though it does travel through
the urethra (just like a male's ejaculate travels through the urethra). Here's
an excellent resource with information and techniques.
Is it true if a woman or man lays over the edge of the bed that an orgasm
will be more intense? Is this a common practice, and is it healthy?
What you are describing, to some degree, is known as autoerotic asphyxiation.
This is the practice of inducing cerebral anoxia through self-suffocation in
order to (supposedly) enhance orgasm. In layman's terms, that means cutting off
the oxygen supply to the brain, which can intensify sensations and produce a
light-headed giddiness or exhilaration in addition to the normal sensations
experienced with orgasm. It can also cause a quick, accidental death.
There are no concrete statistics about the commonality of AEA, as it is usually
practiced in some amount of secrecy, most often by males, and usually only
discovered at death. An estimated 1000 people a year die from autoerotic
asphyxiation. Based on this information, I'd have to say it is neither safe, nor
healthy. Remember Michael Hutchence, lead singer for INXS? There are dozens of
other ways of heightening orgasm...be safe.
Live Talk with girls
I was wondering if you can tell me of a good substitute for a condom that
doesn't cost money.
Abstinence.
I'm not kidding. There is NO substitute for a condom. Do everyone a favor, fork
over a couple of bucks for a pack and move on.
Whenever I play with my anus, I am always left with a slight but irritating
burning sensation. I use lots of lube and never stick anything up there that is
not silky smooth but it always seems to burn. Is it just me or does every one
get this feeling?
Okay, let's talk about anal play. Done with care and attention, anal play can be
very satisfying and stimulating. A few things you should know: first, your anus
is not self-lubricating (like the vagina and penis) so it absolutely requires
the use of lube. There is no such thing as too much lube when playing with the
bum; thicker non-oil based lubes tend to be preferred (as the rectum absorbs
thinner consistency lubes quicker).
Second, anal tissues and membranes are highly sensitive and can be damaged
extremely easily. Friction can cause irritation (such as the burning you are
experiencing) and bruising, even when you think you are being extremely gentle.
Which leads to...
Be sure of a few things: one, that your hands are VERY clean. Cannot stress that
enough. Two, make sure your nails are short and not jagged. Three, toys used in
the anus should be meant for the anus... there are, of course, substitutions,
but that has to be done with discretion and intelligence. Four, patience and
relaxation are the KEY. Go slow, and never ever force anything, whether it's a
finger or a toy. If you aren't fully relaxed, and stimulated, and using a good
deal of lube, you may experience anything from irritation to discomfort to pain.
It sounds like you may have irritated the tissues around your anus, which would
result in the burning sensation you are experiencing.
Most of the information I've given came from a great website, Sex Toys 411...
and here is more. I hope that helps!
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I am a 15-year-old boy who masturbates daily. What things at home can I use
as sex toys?
There are dozens of options that are both safe and effective. Some of the best
suggestions can be found right here, in the Techniques Section. You'll hear
about some extremely inventive and effective ways of getting yourself off;
everything from humping pillows folded in two to wrapping saran wrap and warm
washcloths around your penis. Take a look, and if you still have questions come
back for more tips. Just beware of items that may cause problems, like bottles
(mouths that are too small and would result in getting stuck) or anything that
may be abrasive or injurious (strange chemicals, overly-rough textured fabric,
jagged edges, non-specific electrical equipment, etc.).
Recently I have started taking Zoloft for anxiety problems. I used to
masturbate almost every day. But since I started it, my sex drive has been
almost eliminated. When I do try to masturbate, it takes almost an hour to reach
orgasm and the orgasm is extremely unsatisfying. Is this something I should be
concerned about? Is there anything I can do to have a better masturbation
experience?
This is a difficult situation. Zoloft is a selective seratonin reuptake
inhibitor (SSRI), which floods the bloodstream with serationin, a chemical that
signals satiety in the body. In other words, it reduces the need to be or feel
sexual. It's stated on the Zoloft website that one of the side effects may be
"sexual problems in men and women." I researched around a bit and found that
lower sex drive and delayed orgasm are fairly common in patients taking Zoloft;
there are several discussion boards you can find for support and discussion.
There are suggestions that yohimbe bark is an effective supplement. Dr. Weil (a
doctor of holistic health) recommends Asian ginseng (panax), the ayurvedic herb
ashwaganda, or the Chinese tonic herb, ho shou wu to increase sexual energy.
Some discussion forums discuss adding Buspar or Wellbutrin to their daily
regimen to offset the symptoms. Another option is Bupropion, which seems to have
less of an effect on sex drive; however, this is prescribed more often for
depression rather than anxiety. I wish I had more sufficient answers for you,
but I think your best bet is to consult with your doctor in an open and honest
manner in order to seek alternatives.
[an error occurred while processing this directive]Hey, I'm wondering if I'm normal. I'm 11, and I'm the only guy I know who has
tons of pubic hair, a changing voice, and can ejaculate when I masturbate. Is
there something wrong with me?
Hey there... just a few words. Remember that each person is an individual, and
will go through puberty at different times, at different rates. An average age
to experience puberty is just that... a middle number based on a very broad
range of ages. There's no magic age when everyone develops. No stress, you're
normal, just moving at a faster pace than your friends.
Hello. I am just wondering if this is normal. When I get an erection, my
foreskin does not pull back on its own. When I pull it back, it's very tight and
hurts, like it is cutting into the head of my penis. It's like my foreskin is
not wide enough to fit over the head of my penis. Is this a problem that I
should get checked out? Thanks, Phil.
Hey Phil. There is a relatively common condition in uncircumcised men called
"phimosis." (Actually, all males are born with phimosis, 90% obtain natural
retraction by the age of 3). This is when the foreskin won't retract over the
glans (head) or only partially retracts because the phimotic ring (a tight band
of skin on the foreskin) is narrower than the size of the glans itself. There
are varied causes of phimosis, everything from congential inheritance to
inflammation to adult diabetes. For some men, it doesn't present a problem and
they have a normal, healthy, sexual life. It sounds like it is causing you pain,
so here's some more info.
The treatment seems to be dependent on age and on your desire for invasiveness.
Steroid cream therapy, surgery, or stretching are the most common forms of
treatment, depending on the progression of the condition as well as your
personal preferences. Needless to say, there are huge arguments against the more
extreme surgical methods, as many men have had tremendous success with gentle
manual stretching techniques.
Here's a detailed Website with loads of info and methods for stretching.
Basically, when you have an erection, pull the foreskin backwards over the glans
as far as possible without pain. Two fingers may be inserted into the opening of
the foreskin to act as a dilator. Like any other process, slow and easy is best.
Regardless, now that you have some basic information, I seriously suggest that
you head to your doc and see what he or she has to say.
[an error occurred while processing this directive]Within the last couple of months, I've been trying to maintain a healthier
lifestyle which includes daily exercise and healthier eating. During this time
period, I've noticed that my orgasms have been getting stronger and my
ejaculations have increased in quantity. I'm not in the least disappointed (and
maybe the answer is obvious), but why is this?
My first thought, based on a medical standpoint, is that healthy diet and
exercise improves circulation, muscular response and brain function. The likely
result is improved performance in all areas of your life, including sexual
activity.
This article talks about dopamine levels in the brain increasing with exercise.
Apparently, erection-boosting medications are based on enhancing dopamine
behavior in the brain.
In other words, it's been difficult to track down concrete information regarding
the correlation between exercise and increased sexual performance, but there are
many, many testimonials out there confirming that relationship. Hey, enjoy :)
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